You know the feeling. Nothing has actually changed, but everything is suddenly different. Tensions seethe around the space - a cage full of venomous serpents hissing at each other with smiles on their faces, pretending to be polite so as not to get caught hating.
Perhaps you had hoped to finally find a 'sisterly' space that was safe enough to let your guard down. The beginning looked so promising. You cheerfully did more than your share of the 'dirty work' - being a 'responsible victim' - until you overhear one of the women say, "...she is so fastidious."
The disillusionment crashes down upon your fantasy world. Your unconscious rage vomits forth. Your story is that 'your trust has been betrayed' so it is time for revenge.
Within a couple seconds of consulting your Shadow World you know exactly how to flirt with her boyfriend to drive her absolutely insane. A silent inner cackle rings in your guts, the irresponsible glee of a crazed demon... Where did that come from? you wonder for a flash. But the moment passes and you busily proceed setting up pieces on the gameboard for your devastating revenge, all the while keeping calm in a pure and innocent demeanor.
'MEN' NEED WOMEN TO HATE EACH OTHER
The capitalist patriarchal empire pumps out a suffocating avalanche of toxic, unrecyclable plastic and electronic nick-knacks plus weapons as unstoppably as the Sorcerer's Apprentice's brooms gone mad. To continue its insane economic growth paradigm, modern culture requires slaves in the factories to keep the machines rolling day and night, in the mines ravaging the Earth for minerals, and in the fields to grow and truck-in food for the elite city dwellers. Cities exist only with violently controlled slaves, because cities cannot grow their food of their own.
To keep the slaves in desperate enough survival to do the slave jobs, we must be kept isolated at the bottom of the hierarchies without other options.
If we come together in Circles rather than hierarchies, suddenly we discover immense resources: we have each other.
You know how much easier it is to solve other people's problems than it is to solve your own? The Circle can unleash unexpected forces of group intelligence that we can direct towards each other's good. We have unexpected solutions, resources, collaborations, and nonlinear possibilities for each other - the kind of treasures that grow by giving them away.
If you buy into the world proposed by modern culture's news and media (and pay for the magazines, besides), then a woman must compete against other women for the limited 'luxury' places in the 'men's' world. Every other woman is 'the competition'. No female can be trusted. All are suspected backstabbers, liars, a terrifying threat against our chances. If the other woman wins, you lose... and the loss is devastating. You only have a few years of sex-appeal in which to win your place. Competition is an 'I win. You lose.' survival game. It unleashes desperate, spidery, negative unconscious manifestations of the feminine: 'spiders' battling 'spiders' while the 'flies' smirk at each other and go drinking.
Women At Circle In Archearchy
UNMIXING YOUR FEELINGS IS REVOLUTIONARY
Unmixing your feelings is a choice for living up front and out loud. Women can come together in Circle to provide each other with authentic adulthood healing and initiatory processes
If you mix your sadness and anger together and feel depressed, then you are not dangerous. If your are in despair, you isolate in stay in your room and you are not dangerous. If you mix your anger and fear together then then people just categorize you as hysterical.
Women's Circle Experiments
Shift Identity: Become An Experimenter
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Start Over again as an Experimenter (the capital 'E' means conscious, intentional, next-culture experimenter).
If you are an Experimenter then you can do weird things without explanation or permission. You can make big mistakes and learn wild stuff and use it to design your next Experiments.
Perhaps you do not already live in a self-created nanonation simply because you never thought of doing it before. If so, that problem is solved!
Help Translate S.P.A.R.K.s Into Your Language
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S.P.A.R.K. stands for Specific Practical Applications of Radical Knowledge.
Most S.P.A.R.K. Experiments are about 2 pages long, start with a powerful DISTINCTION which is unfolded in the NOTES section and supported with astonishing matrix-building EXPERIMENTS you can do during your everyday life.
S.P.A.R.K.s are one of the most loved resources from Possibility Management.
There are already over 210 S.P.A.R.K.s written and available online in English, but not all of them are translated into other languages. Check language availability HERE.
If your Team would like to help translate S.P.A.R.K. Experiments into your language, please write directly with Clinton Callahan so he can set it up: clinton at nextculture dot org.
Either upload the contact info for your Women's Circle, or check out Women's Circles in your area and help weave the global Women's-Circle village. Women's Circles are a wave of the evolution of consciousness on Earth and the true beginnings of archearchy.
Invite a Male Member Of The Patriarchy To One Of Your Woman's Circle Meetings
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Your purpose is to propose and discuss various strategies with him for making offers a male patriarch cannot refuse to exit the patriarchy.
He probably never thought of this before. This could be one advantage you have in the conversation.
Making linear and nonlinear offers and navigating this conversation space may require you to develop new skills. But the biggest asset you may have is experiencing anc communicating your Conscious Feelings about your anger, sadness, fear and joy even with someone who is probably not very skilled at listening.
Be careful not to make the patriarch wrong for using Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware.
Be ESPECIALLY CAREFUL that the spider-against-spider energetics do not arise among you to kill the Women's Circle bonds that have been forming between you with jealousy, competition, backstabbing, etc.
Invite a Female Member Of The Patriarchy To One Of Your Woman's Circle Meetings
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Your purpose is to propose and discuss various strategies with her for making offers a that a female patriarch cannot refuse to exit the patriarchy.
She probably never thought of this before. This could be one advantage you have in the conversation.
But the biggest asset you may have is experiencing and communicating your Conscious Feelings: saying, "I feel angry, sad, scared, and glad about ___________," and asking her what she feels, even if she may not be not very skilled at listening or conscious feelings.
Be careful not to make the patriarch wrong for using Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware.
Invite One Or Two Members Of A Functioning Men's Circle To One Of Your Women's Circle Meetings
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Your purpose is to practice making invitations they cannot refuse to take steps on the path of authentic adulthood initiations that build matrix to experience the evolution of consciousness.
During your Women's Circle meeting previous to this one, make a list of the skills you will practice and the proposals you will make during the conversation.
Skills might include:
Box Is Optional
Making 5 Offers
Culture To Culture Conversation
Investigate How Feeling Confusion Is A Self-Deception About Feeling Angry
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Practice together making the shift between saying, "I am confused," to saying, "I feel angry," and standing in your anger.
For example, use your conscious anger to commit to something before you have the know-how to do it. This is called: Commit before you know how. It works because your authentic commitment changes the shape of your Being so the world interacts with you differently. You are now the woman who is committed.
I commit to lowering my Numbness Bar and using my conscious-anger-powered Clarity to say what I want.
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